Most of us fear change, so we stick with our current situations even when we wish things could be different. We want things to change, but we don't want to have to go through what is necessary to make the change.Perhaps a better way to think about this is to commit to making transformations in your life, instead of changes.
Websters II New College Dictionary defines change as "to make different; to lay aside, abandon, or leave for another." Transformation is defined as "to change the nature, function or condition of." Transformation entails so much more than just making a change. It creates a positive twist on a normally negative action. To transform is to convert the state of the situation into one of new possibility. It creates a new, vibrant energy where our energy was once being drained. To transform is to bring into light and reality the thing we desire.
If we can hold this intention of transformation, we will find passion for "changing" the things in our lives that we are unhappy with. Transformation enlists excitement. To transform your career into one that brings you joy, for example, is exciting, while on the other hand, thinking about changing your job is scary.
See if you can banish the word "change" from your vocabulary and use the word "transform" instead. Notice the shift in your mind, body and soul when you use this new word. Even saying you are going to go "change your clothes" can take on a new perspective. Instead feel what happens when you say, I'm going to go upstairs and be transformed." Doesn't that feel refreshing?
Learn to use the power of your words to your advantage. Words can drag us down or they can uplift us. Which do you choose for yourself?
